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What I Learned from Dating 11 Women Simultaneously

161 min readOct 3, 2025

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What happens when your ultimate fantasy becomes real — and how it changes you.

About my story

It has always been a dream of mine to create a space, making it possible for a group of curious women to unfold sexually, gain pleasure, and learn from the experience. This is a true story, but most of the conversations are recreated from memory.

​​The story answers questions like these

  • How can sex become therapeutic and healing?
  • How to avoid manipulating potential partners when dating?
  • How do you create a romantic getaway with many partners?
  • How can twelve people make love to each other at the same time?
  • What happens when you take a group of partners to a sex club?
  • How do you create unique and honest relationships with every member of an open relationship?
  • How do you avoid jealousy while dating more than one partner?
  • In what ways is dating a group of partners difficult, and what are the advantages of being monogamous?

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Carsten Graff
Carsten Graff

Written by Carsten Graff

Reflective and true stories about the tabooed areas of sex, love, language and health. www.carstengraff.com or www.sexologi.net