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Oct 3, 2025

What I Learned from Dating 11 Bisexual Women Simultaneously

What really happens when your ultimate fantasy becomes real — and how it changes you.

What I Learned from Dating 11 Bisexual Women Simultaneously

Carsten Graff

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Jan 9

How Arousing Women Became My Job

It’s been over ten years since I began offering professional erotic massage for women

How Arousing Women Became My Job

Carsten Graff

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Nov 11, 2025

The Traumatizing but 100% Sure Way to Know if You are Bisexual

The experience of receiving a gay blowjob was constantly ruined when I heard him grunt with his deep voice, or could feel his big, rough…

The Traumatizing but 100% Sure Way to Know if You are Bisexual

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Nov 7, 2025

If I Need Therapy, I Visit a Sex Worker.

Traditional therapy is as meaningless and predictable as professional sex.

If I Need Therapy, I Visit a Sex Worker.

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Oct 28, 2025

How To Give an Orgasmic Hug

My first orgasmic hug, and how I learned to give an orgasm from a verbal command.

How To Give an Orgasmic Hug

Carsten Graff

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Sep 26, 2025

NEGATIVE PSYCHOLOGY

The Joy of Feeling Better by Trying to Feel Worse

NEGATIVE PSYCHOLOGY

Carsten Graff

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Sep 11, 2025

HOW TO ENJOY YOUR DEPRESSIONS

If you choose to welcome your depressions with open arms, you push them out of their comfort zone.

HOW TO ENJOY YOUR DEPRESSIONS

Carsten Graff

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Jul 1, 2025

Hurray! My Wife Is Pregnant by Another Man

My story of living the ultimate polyamorous lifestyle with a wife, two lovers, and two lovers-in-laws, but not knowing who was the father…

Hurray! My Wife Is Pregnant by Another Man

Carsten Graff

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Jun 25, 2025

THE COST OF FREE SEX

This is my shocking calculation showing why my free sex life ended up costing more than professional sex. Besides this, I will show how I…

THE COST OF FREE SEX

Carsten Graff

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May 26, 2025

HOW MONEY BOUGHT ME LOVE

This is the story of how I explored the life of a London sugardaddy while learning how money can buy love.

HOW MONEY BOUGHT ME LOVE

Carsten Graff

Carsten Graff

Reflective and true stories about the tabooed areas of sex, love, language and health. www.carstengraff.com or www.sexologi.net

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